Choose a gentler way for conveying the message.

There usually is a kinder way to say the same thing. The distinction between the message and the tone in which it is delivered isn't always easy to discern. Adjusting ones present course of action for improving in the future is as important a message as any. Improvement is possible is the message.

- Vigs

For whom is the message

Proceed with the confidence that those who are meant to read it will do so, at the times in their lives which are right for them. It could be this very instant or generations later. Distance and time will not diminish the value of your ideas and actions. Will it be too late or too early for some. Perhaps. For the ones who choose to reflect on your message now or later in light of their own experiences, ideas, feelings and ideals, may find themselves warmly illuminated.

- Vigs